Doctor's don't want to help me diagnose Cameron's arm!

I am at my final straw today with dealing with Doctors and Nurses. No one wants to help me with getting Cameron a diagnosis. Why is there no urgency on this. He's only 4 months old! They now want me to wait for some "guy" to come to Yakima in mid March to look at his arm. It seems simple to me and they make it so complicated. I mention I am going mad with self diagnosis. As a mother you google "swollen arm" and tell me the thoughts that run through your mind when looking at a man with one arm the size of an elephant and the other normal. I am getting nasty with these people and if they don't like me now I just simply don't care. They have no compassion for me or my baby. God forbid anyone gets sick or has a problem in Yakima. They have to wait months to be seen by someone who actually knows what they are talking about. On a happier note look at that little sweet boy! I am so blessed not matter what happens I will cherish every moment. "As soon as I get off this computer and stop freaking my self out with the possibilities".